Post by sara22 on Mar 3, 2005 8:05:13 GMT -5
Being Popular Tip
Hi Derek,
i have just bought your books n can't wait to get started but firstly would like to hear your advice on my current predicament. I need a being popular tip: i got to know this girl from my other friend thr icq, we spent time chatting everyday since then, and i got to knw that she is a pretty babe so i tried to ask her out but she has got wind that i have a girlfriend and say it would not be nice. i tried numerous times saying to come out jus as a friend but she is still not willing citing my girlfriend as the reason. Any way to get round this. Please advise. Thanks!
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It is against this girl's values to go out with a guy who already has a girlfriend and is popular. So you can't violate that core value of hers very easily.
You have to establish with her that your
girlfriend is really just one of your friends and you're not committed to her in that way.
It's okay to have a girlfriend, but if your goal is to seduce a bunch of women it will hold you back, period. With future girls don't call them your "girlfriend" they're just your friends who you have sex with. That's my being popular tip of the day.
Regards,
Derek
Hi Derek,
i have just bought your books n can't wait to get started but firstly would like to hear your advice on my current predicament. I need a being popular tip: i got to know this girl from my other friend thr icq, we spent time chatting everyday since then, and i got to knw that she is a pretty babe so i tried to ask her out but she has got wind that i have a girlfriend and say it would not be nice. i tried numerous times saying to come out jus as a friend but she is still not willing citing my girlfriend as the reason. Any way to get round this. Please advise. Thanks!
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It is against this girl's values to go out with a guy who already has a girlfriend and is popular. So you can't violate that core value of hers very easily.
You have to establish with her that your
girlfriend is really just one of your friends and you're not committed to her in that way.
It's okay to have a girlfriend, but if your goal is to seduce a bunch of women it will hold you back, period. With future girls don't call them your "girlfriend" they're just your friends who you have sex with. That's my being popular tip of the day.
Regards,
Derek
